What do you think it takes to impress a girl at first sight? Is it your looks or is it your personality? Is it the way you smile or the way you dress? Read on to find out.
1. Wear clothes that you are comfortable wearing
There is no point in wearing clothes that you are uncomfortable in, just for the sake of fashion. Whether it is the style of your denim or the fit of your shirt, wear clothes that don’t leave you stiff and uncomfortable. Carrying off clothes you wear is more important than the type of clothes you wear.
2. Let your body language do the talking
To impress a girl at first sight, you will need to let your body language do the talking. Let confidence ooze from the way you sit, stand and walk. Make it a point to carry a straight back and avoid slouching. Be aware and try to control the movement of your hands and feet to avoid twitching unnecessarily. The girl needs to see a confident man inside you, not a jittery and nervous fellow.
3. Look into her eyes
You won’t be able to impress a girl if she doesn’t know that you are looking at her. Make your attempts subtle yet obvious by looking into her eyes when she is looking towards you. Keep your sight straight and don’t take your eyes away if she looks back. When you lock gazes, judge the situation and decide if you want to keep gazing, let out a smile or walk over and say hi.
4. Smile when the time is right
Don’t carry a plastic smile on your face all the time or don’t carry a glum expression either. As you walk past her or give her a glance, smile when your eyes meet. Pick the right time so that your smile appears to be a result of your delight on seeing her, not something that you were waiting to do. You could also give out a slight nod as you smile at her as a sign of acknowledgment.
5. Don’t be too upfront
Unless you are absolutely confident in walking up to a girl and initiating an impromptu conversation, don’t be too upfront, otherwise you may risk coming across as arrogant. Wait for the right moment and if possible, look for something that can initiate a genuine conversation with her. It could be something as simple as noticing the book she is reading and starting a conversation about how you like the author too. Look for subtle ways to initiate an interaction with her rather than being too macho.
6. Ask your friend to help you
How can your friend help you in impressing a girl at first sight? If you plan your move right, a friend could be your answer to wooing the lady who has caught your eye. Your friend could give you compliments in a way that she overhears them or your friend could go over and chat with the girl in an attempt to draw her attention toward you. All it needs is a spark that can make you the center of attention and if your friend has a plan up his or her sleeve, that could work in your favor.
