Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts

Sunday 8 May 2016

5 spots she wishes you would touch more often


A lot of women complain that men are so focused on their assets (boobs, ass, vagina) that they completely ignored other erogenous body parts.
Don’t be that guy. These are 5 places she wishes you would touch more.

The ears

Touch or massage the rim of her ear between your thumb and forefinger while cradling the back of her head with your fingers. (Ignore the insensitive earlobe.)
As she responds, graze the ridge of her outer ear with the tip of your nose.

Her neck

Brush your lips between her throat and chin.The skin is thinner where the body flexes. The nerves and blood vessels are closer to the surface—that’s why it’s also a perfume point. You’ll engage sensory receptors and trigger an emotional response.

The fingers

Great for when you are in public. During a movie or long flight, tease her palm; hands are dense with sensory receptors.  Spread your fingers outward from the upper part of her palm, slowly moving them up her fingers. Do it lightly—touch-sensitive receptors in the skin respond better than the pressure-sensitive receptors inside (whose job is grabbing).
It’s discreet enough for no one to notice, but enticing enough to awaken other parts of her body.

Her forearms

The inner part of the wrist is extremely sensitive to temperature.
Try licking her wrist and blowing softly to create a cooling sensation—special receptors there are tuned to detect differences in temperature. Any area with fine, downy hair is going to respond best to a light, almost nonexistent touch. Just stimulate the hairs and you’ll give her shivers.

The back

Knead the muscles between her shoulder blades and spine, and follow with light fingertip strokes. As you get lower and lower down the back, the nerves become more sensitive.
Let your fingers drift to her sides, gently touching the sides of her breasts. During sex, take a back-rub break to delay ejaculation. She will think you are so focused on her and not just he sex thats he would not realise you are doing it to delay ejaculation.
Source: madailygist

Wednesday 13 April 2016

How much sex should you be having?

Basic instinct (1992) movie scene 

Are you having enough sex? You might have wondered if you should up your bedroom activity after reading about other couples' resolutions to have sex every day or about all the health benefits of getting horizontal.
In what might be welcome news for everyone exhausted from work and frazzled from kids, research suggests you don't have to get down every day to reap the rewards of sex, at least in terms of happiness and relationship closeness.
recent study found that, although married people or people in committed relationships who had more sex tended to report feeling happier, the benefit leveled off at a sexual frequency of once a week. Those who said they did the deed four or more times a week did not report feeling any happier than those who had trysts only weekly.
"I do think couples can end up feeling pressure to try to engage in sex as frequently as possible," said Amy Muise, a postdoctoral researcher studying sexual relationships at Dalhousie University in Canada. Once a week "is maybe a more realistic goal to set than thinking you have to have sex everyday and that feels overwhelming and you avoid it," said Muise, who is lead author of the study, which was published in November in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science.
The study found that sex could boost happiness because it makes people feel more satisfied in their relationship, based on survey data from two separate cohorts, including 2,400 married couples in the U.S. National Survey of Families and Households.
    "For people in relationships, their romantic relationship quality is one of the biggest predictors of their overall happiness," Muise said. "Having sex more than once a week might not be enhancing that (relationship connection), although it is not bad."
    However, there are a couple of rubs with this research, Muise said. One is that it is not clear which came first, sex or happiness. It may be that people who have sex once a week or more were happier in their relationship and life to begin with, and not that the sex helped make them happy. Or both may be true: Sex enhances happiness and happiness enhances sex.
    The other catch is that, although a weekly romp might be just what some people need, it might be too much or too little for others. "Certainly there are couples for whom having sex less frequently will be fine for their happiness, and there are couples who will get increases in happiness if they have sex more than once a week," Muise said.

    What's the right number for you?

    "One of the best effects of an article like this (by Muise and her colleagues) is that it opens up conversations with couples" about their sex life, said Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist based in Berlin. For some couples, the question of how often they should have sex might not have come up, which could be a sign they feel sufficiently close and satisfied -- or that they are just too busy or disconnected to think about it.
    "Most couples want to be having more sex and I think this is really a result of how busy and full most of our lives are," Marin said.
    Marin avoids prescribing an amount of sex that couples should have, because every couple is different, and instead recommends couples test it out for themselves. "I'm a big fan of having clients experiment, like, one month try to have sex twice a week and see how that goes, or once a week, try to play around with it," Marin said.
    As for those lucky couples that are content with how often they get busy under the sheets, one study suggests they may not want to change a thing. Researchers asked couples that were having sex about six times a month to double down on getting down. Couples that doubled their sexual frequency were in worse moods and enjoyed sex less at the end of three months than couples who had stuck to their usual level of bedroom activity.
    "Being told you should do something always makes it less fun," said George Loewenstein, a professor of economics and psychology at Carnegie Mellon University and lead author of the study. That is another reason Marin does not make recommendations to couples about sexual frequency -- for fear they could worry they are not living up to expectations and lose their mojo.
    However, there's a far bigger relationship problem than couples worrying they aren't having quite enough sex -- "couples that have pretty much stopped having sex," Loewenstein said. For these couples, "I think once a week is a good final goal. ... It is almost like a natural constant to do it once a week," he said.
    Even if these abstinent couples want to be having more sex, they may lack the desire for their partner. These couples can try conventional strategies, such as scheduling more quality time together or trying a change in scenery. "What couple has not had the experience that you go to a hotel in a new location in a new environment and the person you're with seems different, and different is good when it comes to sex," Loewenstein said.
    But if these tricks aren't enough, couples may have to appeal to their rational rather than lustful side and tell themselves to just do it. "These couples might be surprised how enjoyable it would be if they restarted," Loewenstein said.

    Should you schedule your sex?

    It might sound like the least romantic thing in the world to pencil in sexy time with your partner. But if you and your partner are game to try, there is no reason not to make a sex schedule.
    "For some couples, scheduling sex works really well, it gives them something to look forward to, they like the anticipation, they like feeling prioritized," Marin said. "Then other couples (say) scheduling sex feels horrible to them, like sex is transactional and just another item on their to-do list."
    Again, Marin recommends couples experiment with scheduling sex to see if it helps them, as long as neither is opposed to it.
    A good idea for all couples, whether they like the idea of scheduling sex, is to plan for quality time together -- just the two of them. Ideally, this would be about 20 minutes a day with the TV off and cell phones away, but for extra busy couples, it can help to reserve just five minutes a day for a tete-a-tete, Marin said. This time is also the "container for sex," the time and privacy when sex can be initiated, but you don't have to feel pressure about it, she added.
    Although scheduling sex can help couples that want to be having sex but just can't find the time, it can make things worse for some. "If there are relationship issues or psychological issues such as stress or anxiety, then scheduling sex might just add to the pressure," said Acacia Parks, associate professor of psychology at Hiram College.

    As for when to schedule the sex, the best time is probably the time when you are least likely to be pulled away by life's obligations. One of the perks of rise-and-shine sex is that testosterone levels are highest in the morning, and this hormone drives sexual desire. On the other hand, tuck-you-in sex could help lull you to sleep, as hormones released during orgasm could help you relax and feel tired.
    According to Muise, the participants in her research typically reported having sex at night before going to sleep, which is not that surprising. But it has to work for both parties. "This is another point of negotiation between partners," Muise said. "One of them is just too exhausted. That might be something to play around with, is there a time on the weekend that we could try instead."
    Source: Cnn Edition

    Kim Kardashian reveals the ‘craziest place’ she has ever Made Love


    Just a few hours after her sister Khloe blogged about having S3 X:’ for the very first time at age 15, Kim Kardashian decided to talk about love and S3X:’ during a Q&A on her website’s live stream.
    When asked during the live interview if she was a member of the mile high club, a common slang for those who have had S3Xual intercourse on a flight, she simply replied: ‘Am I? Yeah.’
    But she went on to stress that she’d only ever do the deed on a private jet and not a public flight, and never on a short distance journey.
    ‘But like the private,’ she added. ‘I don’t think like a public plane…It would have to be an international flight. It was an international, night flight when no one’s like around.’
    The wife of rapper Kanye West, then insisted that an aeroplane isn’t the craziest place she has ever had S3X:’.
    ‘Like a public movie theatre, yeah,’ The Keeping Up With The Kardashians star said to her assistant Steph who was reading out all the messages.
    But she refused to reveal if she shared such moments with her husband and rapper Kanye West.
    Source: Ma daily gist Nigeria

    Tuesday 16 February 2016

    THE LOVE POTRAYED (#UgBlogWeek)

    Have you ever taken time to notice Besigye and Museveni glancing at each other whenever they meet. Wanna see you asking yourself that question. Me I noticed it during the previous presidential debate, the hurriedly hand check that doesn’t last  longer a hug you get for your opponent after fighting.  Remember love is one of the greatest commandment in Bible. It had been stated in many insistences; verses in the bible like love your neighbor as you love yourself. Hehehe (evil laugh), during these elections and presidential rallies; we expect riots and smoking tear gas instead of smoking shisha and marijuana. So, be embraced to preach the love into the soldier or police officer who will be in position to fire to you a canister full of teargas. Us those verses well- alter dem verses about love to that soldier; let them be your armor. Just hit it unto him like “Love your neighbor as you love yourself”. Of recent, we have seen large masses of people showing much love for their rightful candidates.








    People portraying love for their candidate and they are even willing to die for them. Many of those scenarios are willing to be seen after the elections.

    Wednesday 26 August 2015

    Tips to Impress a Girl at First Sight

    What do you think it takes to impress a girl at first sight? Is it your looks or is it your personality? Is it the way you smile or the way you dress? Read on to find out.

    1. Wear clothes that you are comfortable wearing

    There is no point in wearing clothes that you are uncomfortable in, just for the sake of fashion. Whether it is the style of your denim or the fit of your shirt, wear clothes that don’t leave you stiff and uncomfortable. Carrying off clothes you wear is more important than the type of clothes you wear.

    2. Let your body language do the talking

    To impress a girl at first sight, you will need to let your body language do the talking. Let confidence ooze from the way you sit, stand and walk. Make it a point to carry a straight back and avoid slouching. Be aware and try to control the movement of your hands and feet to avoid twitching unnecessarily. The girl needs to see a confident man inside you, not a jittery and nervous fellow.

    3. Look into her eyes

    You won’t be able to impress a girl if she doesn’t know that you are looking at her. Make your attempts subtle yet obvious by looking into her eyes when she is looking towards you. Keep your sight straight and don’t take your eyes away if she looks back. When you lock gazes, judge the situation and decide if you want to keep gazing, let out a smile or walk over and say hi.














    4. Smile when the time is right

    Don’t carry a plastic smile on your face all the time or don’t carry a glum expression either. As you walk past her or give her a glance, smile when your eyes meet. Pick the right time so that your smile appears to be a result of your delight on seeing her, not something that you were waiting to do. You could also give out a slight nod as you smile at her as a sign of acknowledgment.

    5. Don’t be too upfront

    Unless you are absolutely confident in walking up to a girl and initiating an impromptu conversation, don’t be too upfront, otherwise you may risk coming across as arrogant. Wait for the right moment and if possible, look for something that can initiate a genuine conversation with her. It could be something as simple as noticing the book she is reading and starting a conversation about how you like the author too. Look for subtle ways to initiate an interaction with her rather than being too macho.

    6. Ask your friend to help you

    How can your friend help you in impressing a girl at first sight? If you plan your move right, a friend could be your answer to wooing the lady who has caught your eye. Your friend could give you compliments in a way that she overhears them or your friend could go over and chat with the girl in an attempt to draw her attention toward you. All it needs is a spark that can make you the center of attention and if your friend has a plan up his or her sleeve, that could work in your favor.

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